5 Tell-Tale Signs That The Guy You Are Dating Is Into You

1.  You speak on a weekly basis. A guy who cares about you will want to know how you are doing on a regular basis. This means that you both talk about what is happening in your respective lives and ask the other person about his/her’s. Your partner texting you once in a blue moon is not enough. If that is the case, he probably just sees you as some girl he can hook up with. Basically, meaningful conversations between you and your partner and weekly updates on your lives are very important in a committed relationship.
2. He compliments you and tells you he loves you. Now, I don’t mean over-complimenting you but he should be giving you compliments, both on physical and non-physical attributes. A guy who is both attracted to you physically and emotionally is a guy who is interested in you. Of course, telling you “I love you” regularly shows how much he thinks of you.
3. He doesn’t lie to you and keeps his word. When a guy doesn’t feel comfortable enough to tell you the truth or simply couldn’t care less, it says a lot about how he feels about you. In an open and genuine relationship, proper communication is made possible. As for keeping his word, this one is especially important to me. Not only does it say a lot about his character but it also says a lot about how much he cherishes you. A guy who makes many promises but doesn’t keep them and consistently lets you down, is a guy who doesn’t care enough about you.
4. He listens to you and respects your needs. When you bring up a problem in the relationship to the guy, he listens and works with you on fixing it. When a guy brushes you off, telling you he doesn’t want to talk about “feelings” or gets mad at you for always bringing up problems, he is the problem, not you. It is also important that the guy respects your boundaries and doesn’t try to pressure you into anything. As being in a relationship is hard work and involves a lot of communication, both partners must be willing to put in the effort. Otherwise, the relationship is likely to fail.
5. He is patient and kind to you. A guy who is patient is a guy who sticks by your side when you are in a bad mood and tries to lift your spirits, with a nice massage, a hug, a movie, or whatever it takes.  He doesn’t start a fight with you over the smallest of things. Two wrongs don’t make a right and so trying to get back at you, instead of talking things through is not the right approach to take. Kindness too is important, as it demonstrates the guy’s respect for you and your happiness.

There are many ways that a guy can express his love for you. The ones mentioned in this article are some important ones.